“About to turn 21 in a month and yet my parents still haven’t learned to consider me as separate individual. I haven’t been perceived as a person capable of owing, nay, possessing her own individualism. They assume I’m still at an age where I need either one of them to stand still on my feet. I may still be a dependant lass, but nonetheless I do am capable of having my own personality. An individual cut off from her hydra of origin. Oh how many more years till I’m witnessed as a separate entity, skillful and mindful enough to make her mind and lead her decisions?”
2 responses to “Journal-65 Independent personality? Nay, not yet.”
I do understand what you are going through. Many parents treat their grownup children like kids. They have your best interests at heart. 😊😊😊 Don’t worry. They will understand once you prove your ability to be independent. It might take time but I am confident that you will be successful in proving yourself as an individual.
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Aww I’m really glad you understand my point of view. Thank you for that😊❤